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Covenant Relationship - Bible Study

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In what ways do you struggle to prove or reprove that you belong on your team or on the field/court? How do you respond when your performance “earns” you criticism from your coach or teammates? How do you process the criticism? What happens inside your head?

https://athletesinaction.org/resources/pdf/02.Covenant.Hurdle.pdf

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Gods Word - Bible Study

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While the Bible was written thousands of years ago and its cultural circumstances are significantly different, it still speaks relevantly to the issues we face today! We can discover its relevance by studying its contents. Whether you believe it should have any authority over your life, however, remains to be decided.

https://athletesinaction.org/resources/pdf/01.Bible.Hurdle.pdf

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Identity - Bible Study

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Helping athletes find their identity in Christ and not lose their identity in their performance. "Our culture tells us we have to DO something to be important, to be valuable and wanted by others. But the relentless pursuit of performance to measure our worth is a deceitful trap: we’re always just one mistake away (one bad game, one slump, one bad season) from falling short of our ideal. At some level, everyone strives for a secure identity that lasts beyond each performance."

https://athletesinaction.org/resources/pdf/07.Identity.Hurdle.pdf

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The Pain of Losing

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The Pain of Losing

“There may be a few days over the next 20 years when you don’t think about it.”  Phil Tufnell, England Cricketer, Loser in 1992 World Cup Final.

Sunday saw, what many commentators are calling one the greatest games in crickets history.  It was won by the finest of margins.  Going into the last over after 8 hours of tense cricket,  England needed 15 runs to win.  With two massive slices of luck (freak incidents) they  made 14 runs and a tie.  In a tie breaker both teams tied again and England were declared winners on a technical rule of hitting more boundaries.

The England team went crazy in front of 30,000 fans at the home of cricket and millions watching on TV.  The celebrations exuberant there was also, from many, respect and sympathy to the team who had lost through the finest of margins.

The long lasting pain of the defeat was summed up by Phil Tufnell in his advice to the New Zealand team.  “There may be a few days over the next 20 years when you don’t think about it.”  Phil Tufnell, England Cricketer, Loser in 1992 World Cup Final.  I think this is something for us as sports chaplains to always keep in mind with athletes or players who have suffered devastating losses.  How long does it affect them? And how can we help them in the process?

Tufnell went on to describe in effect the grieving process over his loss in the 1992 World Cup Final, and how the pain is never far away.  I believe that as sports chaplains who are here for the long term welfare of those in the world of sport, we can play a role here and support those who have lost not through lack of skill, effort or commitment but simply through just bad luck.

How Should Sports Chaplains Deal With Disaster?

How should sports chaplains deal with disaster?“The Lord is close to the broken hearted and saves those who are crushed in Spirit.” Ps 34:1As the former Chaplain of Leicester City I awoke to the horrifying news of the helicopter crash at the King Power Stadium. On the Sunday morning at short notice I did a brief interview for my friends at the local BBC Radio station, the following day my phone was inundated with requests from all over to speak more – I declined.Meanwhile the existing chaplain of the club was fulfilling his duties under the radar of press attention.There will now of course be a flurry of attention for the club, the worlds press will descend. Inside the club are a lot of people in shock hurting - they have lost a friend in Vichai.  There should be no conflict for the sports chaplain he is not there to elevate his worth with press interviews, but there to care for the people in their pain. To provide some comfort from staff & players alike.A chaplain of course is positioned to do so because over the years he has been able to build relationships of trust in an industry where there is little. And so when a time of need occurs he/she will be there to demonstrate God’s care. I believe the effectiveness of the sports chaplain is predicated on the investment of time over the days and years prior to the event.For the larger clubs of course there should be and is more help. The sports chaplain is part of a pastoral team, part of the spoke in the wheel. Emergency services will no doubt draft in specially trained counsellors to support those in shock. It's recommended that all sports chaplains should undertake critical incident training to be equipped with the specific challenges that trauma provide, but he/she does not have all the answers nor should try to.In a few weeks or so time the media flurry will have died down, but the pain will still be present. Let us pray for the chaplain of Leicester City in the days and months ahead that he will be strengthened to provide the pastoral and spiritual care needed.

How Should Sports Chaplains Respond to Controversies?

Colin Kaepernick & Serena Williams – How should sports chaplains respond to these controversies?In recent days the media machine has gone into hyperdrive as it discusses the Kaepernick Nike sponsorship deal.  It seems to be an issue that divides many.  Its an opinion fest with all and sundry expressing their views, debating them often as the vehicle for their own previously held beliefs around nationalism, loyalty and racism.We have after the US Open a similar response – the issues are ‘cheating’, ‘referee bias?’, ‘sexism’.  And again the radio airwaves and opinion columns are filled with the rights and wrongs with endless discussions of experts and (frustratingly) many non-experts.So on which side should chaplaincy fall?If we did a survey of all chaplains on the worldwide registry I’m confident of one thing…..we wouldn’t all agree!  But our role is not to offer opinion but to offer compassion.  I’m not sure how much value we can add to the weighty and lengthy discussions, and frankly who are we to comment or judge.  But what we can do is look with eyes of love – who is really affected here?In the US Open I saw a young lady who had just won the US Open.  She dreamed of the moment and yet it transformed in minutes into a nightmare. Let us take a moment to consider and pray for her family, supporters and coaches and all those who have contributed to her career.  They all will be suffering emotional trauma, how difficult it is to see a dream achieved and yet find it bitter tasting once it is realised.For Kaepernick what are the ramifications of his career ending, how does it impact his loved ones around him?Our job as sports chaplains is not to add to the tsunami of opinion, but with to look with eyes of compassion and seek those who are hurting and provide refuge and comfort.  To provide HIS care out of the view of the media. The neutrality of a sports chaplain is paramount in our ministry.  So on which side should our chaplaincy fall?.....side should never come into it.

Can Sports Chaplains be Coaches…..maybe?!

Can sports chaplains be coaches??? If you had asked me this question a few years ago I would have responded with an unequivocal ‘NO’.  And these are the reasons why one of performance and one of spirituality –1)      Sports Chaplains operate best when they are independent of performance.  A chaplain needs to provide advice and counsel to an individual that is centered on their holistic well-being and do so when you know it might be that such advice will be to the detriment of the athletes sporting ambitions.  How can you do that and be a coach at the same time? - it’s a pretty tough ask.  And what is an even bigger ask is to expect the athlete to confide in you if they know in doing so is going to jeopardise their selection in the team.2)      There is a real danger of blurred lines for the athlete also if the chaplain has both roles. For example how many athletes have attended a bible study, in the hope that their spiritual enthusiasm may influence selection! This is why we are of the strong opinion that the Chaplain should not wear ‘two hats’ - it causes much confusion and creates conflicts of interest.  However the issue is no longer an unequivocal no.  In seeing the development of sports chaplaincy globally one has to be more pragmatic.  Though the above is a preferred stance there are many countries where chaplaincy will never be officially recognised, nor accepted.  So for some their only opportunity to provide that spiritual and pastoral care so desperately needed is by wearing two hats.  We pray for them that they will have the grace and the wisdom to take on this challenge and thank God for their passion and compassion to show Jesus’ love to all.

Global Summit of Sports Chaplaincy Leaders

Last week we completed our second Global Sports Chaplaincy Summit where we gathered together key leaders of sports chaplaincy agencies from across the globe.  Our aim was to discuss how to develop sports chaplaincy worldwide and we had representatives from Africa, Spain, Portugal, Eurasia, Australia, New Zealand, UK and USA.  There were two huge encouragements for me.

Firstly, we began the summit with continent wide feedback on the development of sports chaplaincy.  It has often been said that the concept of chaplaincy would only prosper in English speaking countries, commonwealth countries or countries with a protestant background.  Well our first session put paid to that argument as we heard of developments in Latin America, chaplaincy developing in African nations, and green shoots of growth in areas of Asia and Eastern Europe.

But perhaps the most rewarding time and discussions came at the point where we hit most tension.  We hit a brick wall, a point of no compromise, a point where between us we could see no way forward and I thought the dream of working together to serve the sports world was about to crumble.  At this heated moment we could have argued, stuck in entrenched thought patterns and defended our point of view.  However I saw the complete opposite - brothers caringly listening to each others point of view, submitting to each other, wiling to lay down their point of view for the greater cause.  In many years of ministry I don’t think I have ever experienced such a sacrificial, humble response to conflict, and the result?........We found a way through.

It causes me great excitement that there is a unity together to lay aside egos so that we can see sports chaplaincy expand globally and the world of sport served through the compassion and love of Christ.  Lets see what happens…

Sports Chaplaincy is NOT a tool for evangelism!!!

 

As I have been fortunate in recent years to talk with chaplains from different continents of the world, I know that this statement will provoke a wide range of responses.
I agree with it, but not in the way you might think.  Some of our practices have to be adapted to the culture in which we operate.  In the UK I've heard of a chaplain nearly being sacked by a Team Director for holding a Bible study, and in the US one nearly being sacked by a Team Director for not preaching the gospel!  So understandably when chaplains get together the issue with whether and how they evangelise is often one of contention.
 
But I'm not taking sides in that debate -  the reason I agree with the statement above is not centered around the word evangelism, it is centered around the word tool.  If we see sports chaplaincy as a tool, merely a means to an end I think we are misunderstanding our position and misrepresenting God's heart towards sport.  If we see sport as merely a vehicle, then we in effect we give it no value.
 
One of the things I have learned in the world of professional and elite sport is this - 'Trust is an issue.' Athletes, players, coaches, etc. are inundated with so many people that want a piece of the action, want a bit of reflected glory, or want to use the sports persons gifts to strengthen their own agenda.  Should we operate in the world of sport with hidden motives is that any different? If we are there merely to achieve our own objectives are we not just another one of the crowd?
 
I believe that sports chaplains are there to serve the world of sport, to bless them encourage them, to show them love and compassion.  If our motivation is compassion for each and everyone in the sporting world, we operate selflessly.  Now, we all want to see people come to Christ of course, but our approach, our methodology, will differ depending on the environment of the sport in which we serve, and hopefully tailored to the needs of the individual at that time.  Critically though I believe this - sports chaplaincy is NOT a tool for evangelism, rather it is an expression of God's heart to the broken world of sport.  Lets us not use sport for evangelistic aim, but rather love those in it so that may find Christ.

Remembering what God has done in your Sports Chaplaincy ministry


Well Christmas is arriving and for most chaplains its an extremely busy time of the year. It occurred to me the other day that there is nowhere in the Bible that says that we should celebrate Jesus’ birth….or is there?

We see in the word there is a great tradition and ongoing theme to remember the works God has done. Deuteronomy 4:9 encourages us to remember what our eyes have seen, and never let it fade from our hearts, and to teach it to our children and their children.

It is then important to remember and celebrate Jesus’ birth, but also (and I think this is often forgotten) to remember and celebrate all Gods work.   To remember not only the accounts in the Holy Scriptures but also the stories in our lives. I’d like to encourage you over this Christmas break to take some time to remember and recall all the times in your ministry that God has blessed the work of your hands. Retell the stories to your friend’s and family – faith will rise. You will see His continuing hand in your chaplaincy and be inspired and encouraged to see more in 2018.

Should Chaplains encourage players to give the glory to God after a victory?

Kevin Naiqama, Captain of Fiji’s Rugby League gave an emotional thanks to God following his sides surprise victory against New Zealand in the Rugby League World Cup Quarter Final.

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What do we make of this?  The issue is covered in some depth by my colleague Bob Schindler in his book ‘Does God care who wins?’ and in his recent blog ‘Should we pray to win?', but what should the chaplains response be?  And should they discourage or encourage such public thanks to Jesus?

I was once watching an Africa Cup Semi-Final, as the two teams prepared for the penalty shoot out, opposing players were on their knees calling for God’s help….one of them was disappointed. It shows with simplicity that God’s answer to your prayer will sometimes be a yes and sometimes be a no.  In that perhaps an athletes response to His response gives an indication of whether their identity is wrapped up in victory or whether they appreciate as Arthur Ashe stated ‘Success is a journey, not a destination.’


On the one hand I love to see athletes giving thanks to God for their victory, their boast after all is in the Lord 1 Cor 1:31.  But if that is all we hear from athletes then we may start to receive an imbalanced view of God, that he only backs winners, and that the prayers of the losers counted for nothing.  In politically correct cultures we also need to ensure as chaplains that those making such public affirmations have the maturity to handle the scrutiny that comes with it.

In contrast, I was thrilled to see following Brazil suffering their heaviest defeat, 7-1 to Germany in 2014 World Cup, Brazil star players Neymar & Luiz on their knees giving thanks to God.  It is a rare sight in sporting battle, but showed a window to the spiritual maturity of the two players that they could give thanks even on one of the worst days of their careers.

As chaplains I do not believe it is our role to coerce players into public declarations of their faith, but nor should we deter them from doing so. Our primary focus is their pastoral and spiritual care and supporting them to recognise God with them through victory, defeat, injury and retirement. It is our job to ensure that they take care with such statements and ensure its done out of a genuine love and appreciation. It is our responsibility to help these athletes further onto maturity in their walk.

It was great to hear Fiji’s captain giving thanks to Jesus, I loved the heart in which he did it. And I pray he has the strength to do that throughout the ups and downs of his sporting career.

*Please note, the above video does not actually include the portion of Kevin Naiqama giving thanks to God, but if you are in the UK you can access a BBC version of the interview here.