The Biggest Loser & Spiritual Development

Written by Bob Schindler 

What I like about the show, The Biggest Loser, is watching people achieve what they have never achieved before but have longed for some time to accomplish.  It just stirs my heart as I watch their struggle and joy.

I think there is something to learn from the show about developing people.  To unpack those insights, let me ask “What makes these people able to do on the show what they couldn’t do on their own?”

Remember, there is nothing magical about the equation for losing weight:

Decrease caloric intake + increase caloric output = weight loss

I would guess that each person on the show understood this equation for the most part.  They may not have understood the caloric content of what they were eating but they at least understood the principle.

If that is so, “Why did they achieve during the show what they couldn’t do on their own?”  Or another way of asking the question – “What did the show provide for them that they couldn’t get themselves?”

Basic Premise

While there may be many more than the list below, I point to following concepts as keys to the participants successful weight loss:

 –      Clear formula for weight loss: outlined above and discussed/reinforced often/meals

– Community of development: they were on teams working together on that formula.  

– Qualified Coaches : participants were given individual as well as group attention that extended beyond but impacted their approach to weight loss.

–  Accountability to the team: individual progress impacted the whole team.

–  Focused atmosphere: they were removed from the everyday distractions and together for a specific purpose.

Having listed them, it is the combination of these elements that is the key not just the individual components.  In fact, some of the participants may have even experimented with some of these ideas individually without the corresponding success they found on The Biggest Loser.

Relevance To You

With those thoughts in mind, think about your own efforts or your efforts to help others grow spiritually.  Like many who want to lose weight, I often find people who -

–  want to grow spiritually but who have never really experienced what they long for.

–  are trying to help them grow spiritually, like sports ministers and their coaches and players, but who have little or frustrating impact from their efforts.

 One solution to this frustration may be to take a lesson from The Biggest Loser and try to build this same kind of development atmosphere

1)    the community of development

2)    accountability to the team for progress

3)    focused environment

4)    qualified coaches

working within God’s formula for development.

Our Commitment

At Cede Sports, we work to help local churches construct such an environment.  We create tools to support that environment, including the following video. Join our church directory at no cost where you will have access to many free resources to help equip and train you in furthering your Sports Ministry for the Gospel. Preview these by watching this video explaining our devotional resources and then use this link to join our directory to access all our free resources!

The results – God is using such environments to help sports ministers, coaches, and players achieve what they have always longed to achieve but have never quite got there.  Here is one sports minister’s recent experience:

“We have a renewed excitement and energy. We have a renewed passion for pursuing something that’s so much bigger than just sports. We’ve re-designed our programs with the idea of integrating sports and ministry in mind rather than trying to inject ministry into sport which is what we were guilty of doing before. As a result, participants are enjoying a better experience, families are being served better, and volunteers are serving with a higher calling in mind which gives them a lot of significance.”

If we can help you and your church, please contact us.  We exist to serve the local church.

Something to Pray Before a Game

This blog from the Cripplegate seems very appropriate for sports.  Here are some excerpts:

“Our Father in heaven, Hallowed be Your name. …”- Matthew 6:9 -

Everything we ask for in prayer and everything we do in our lives is to be asked for and done so that God would be glorified—so that the beauty of His manifold perfections would be magnified for all to see. The glory of God should not only drive us to pray; it should also shape all that we pray for.

This is the highest request we could ever attain to make of God, for it is this which is His own most foundational and most ultimate commitment. He Himself has stated that He does all He does with a chief regard for the glory of His own name.

  • Isaiah 42:8 – I am Yahweh, that is My name; I will not give My glory to another.
  • Isaiah 43:7 – Everyone…whom I have created for My glory.
  • Isaiah 43:25 – I, even I, am the one who wipes out your transgressions for My own sake.
  • Isaiah 48:11 – For My own sake, for My own sake, I will act; for how can My name be profaned? And My glory I will not give to another.
  • Ezekiel 36:22-23 – It is not for your sake, O house of Israel, that I am about to act, but for My holy name, which you have profaned among the nations where you went.…I will vindicate the holiness of My great name.
  • Ephesians 1:11-12 – …according to His purpose who works all things after the counsel of His will, to the end that we who were the first to hope in Christ would be to the praise of His glory.

In light of this, perhaps a good prayer before your next game/competition (whether it be as a player, coach, or spectator) could go something like this:Lord, I pray your name will be made great today and not mine.  I pray the way I play/coach/spectate today, and the posture of my heart, would bring you glory.  Would you help my motives today not be based on pride or a misplaced search for significance.  I pray your name would be made known today by my play/coaching/spectating.

Responding to Brokenness

The Reality

Get involved with people very much and you find all kinds of problems. Failing health, marital infidelity, rebellious children, embezzling employees, fractured friendships – the list seems endless.  The influence of sin is all around us. 

Our Response

People respond differently to this reality.  Some deny.  Some avoid.  My response is often to get discouraged and overwhelmed.  It seems the more I listen, the more I just see the greatness of sin.  Left alone, this perspective moves me to despair, tempting me to withdraw.

Jesus had a different response.  Matthew records one example of this response in chapter 9 starting in verse 35.  Jesus’ response, first of all, was to stay very engaged with people.  He was traveling from town to town, and Matthew tells us that, in his travels, he was teaching, preaching and healing.

Matthew doesn’t leave us there.  He tells us the origin of Jesus’ engagement.  In verse 36, we learn “when he (Jesus) saw the crowds”, he saw them as “harassed and helpless”.  Jesus’ engagement began with a perspective on the reality of the power of sin.  It didn’t stop there.  He also saw the reason for this reality.  They were “like sheep without a shepherd”. They were on their own and, on their own, they were “helpless” to deal with that which was harassing them.

Divine Provision

Jesus reaction to the fullness of this reality was compassion.  He was moved by their plight and gave them what they needed – himself, the Good Shepherd.

I gain something significant from Jesus’ reaction.  What people need in dealing with the impact of sin – you, me, people in sports ministry, or people outside the kingdom – is the engagement of this Shepherd.  The greater the impact of sin, the greater the need for a Great Shepherd.  The incredible truth is that Our Shepherd is far greater than the greatest sin, its power and impact. 

This perspective gives me encouragement as I think about the impact of sin.  It also gives me hope as I seek to deal with the impact of sin around me.  I hope it will uplift you also.

Written by Bob Schindler

Is it OK for you to fail?

Failure is a part of life. We all live with the failures of others. More importantly, we also live with ours.

How do you respond to these failures?
  • Do you get angry with yourself?
  • Do you blame others?
  • Do you deny your failures?
  • Do you slough them off?
  • Do you dwell on them?

My friend, Tim Briggs, wrote this blog about a lesson he learned in dealing with his young son’s failure in a soccer game:

After the game, we had a long talk on the field about what happened. When I asked him why he melted down, all he could muster in response was, “I couldn’t get the ball from him. He dribbled right past me.” There’s so much I wanted to say in response to his confession but found myself trying to find the right words that would resonate to his five-year-old understanding of the world. The simplest way I could explain things to him was to say, “It’s okay to fail.” I explained to him that failing was a part of sports. I explained to him the failing was part of life. I explained to him that failing doesn’t define him.Interestingly enough, I think this whole episode has impacted me more than him. He has long forgotten what happened last weekend but here I am, still rehearsing the whole scene in my mind. Maybe it’s because I often feel the same way he does. Failure is so threatening to me because I idolize affirmation. I look to it to provide something that it can never deliver: significance, satisfaction, and salvation.

If you are at all sensitive to what goes on in your heart when you fail, you can relate to what Tim says here.

The gospel speaks powerfully to us in our failure.

The gospel acknowledges the depth and breadth of our failure. The gospel also declares God’s gracious remedy in Christ for our failures, making “him who knew no sin to be sin on our behalf so that we might become the righteousness of God in him.” (2Corinthians 5:21)As Tim says, this means our failures can no longer define us. God intention in such gracious provision is to free us from our fears and silly strategies to deal with our failures and into a willingness to embrace and admit our failures to ourselves, God and others.For me, this doesn’t happen all at once. Rather, as I continue to bask in God’s provision in Christ, this happens over time. As I find my identity more and more rooted in him, I am able to let go, more and more, of the lie that my identity is tied to my behavior or lack there of.

failureSo what now?

This doesn’t mean I treat my failures casually, don’t evaluate my behavior, or don’t try to get better. It does mean the energy behind those efforts has changed. Rather than being powered by my fear of failure, or my passion for admiration or my dread of criticism, now my efforts can be fueled by the desire to show off this great and gracious God. He not only overcame my failures but provides me power to face my failures and actually change. This change is not just on the outside, dealing only with my failed behavior. This change goes much deeper and to a much more important failure, the failure of my heart. This change roots out the selfishness and self-centeredness that so dominates all my life and is seen in so vividly in my fear of failure.   This change turns that self-centeredness to a God-centeredness that gives me more and more of his perspective on my failures.Is it ok for you to fail? It all depends on how you see the gospel.

Do You Get Points For Hitting The Wrong Target?

I once read a book by Bill Hull and he said something like this, “If the church does not make disciples then the leadership is in sin.” This shocked me. After my first 18 months as a solo pastor my honest evaluation was that I had put out a number of fires, preached and taught faithfully, but purposeful discipleship of others was almost nil. If it was happening, it was not planned or expected.

“It is possible to pastor a church, even have a wonderful Sunday morning worship experience; engage the community in deeds of mercy; have a Nickelodeon type children’s ministry with live music and puppets; and still not be creating intentional paths for people “to hear the call of Jesus, respond to that call by repenting, believing his good news and following him in all that entails”¹

Why write this to an audience of Sports Ministers? It is a call to honestly evaluate your ministry. Are you neglecting the call of the great commission to make disciples? Are you discipling/developing your staff, interns, leadership team and your coaches?If you aim at nothing you will hit it every time and if you aim at the wrong thing and hit it – what good is that?If you have large numbers in your leagues and ministry, that’s great! But if that only means you have a lot of numbers and are so busy doing administration to make all of it happen then you might be aiming at the wrong thing and hitting it!Cede Partners comes along side sports ministries and ministers to mentor not only by helping with best practices and resources, but to apply the gospel to you and your ministry. You need someone who will lovingly ask hard questions and help you to truly engage your calling. Check out our website.


¹S. Smallman, The Walk pg. 26

Idols in Sports Ministry

Tim Keller has a book out called Counterfeit Gods. In the book, he tells the story of Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Esau, Jonah, and Zaccheus and uses their stories to teach about idolatry.  From the book, “The human heart takes good things like a successful career, love, material possessions, even family, and turns them into ultimate things. Our hearts deify them as the center of our lives, because, we think, they can give us significance and security, safety and fulfillment, if we attain them.”So, what is an idol? Keller explains, "It is anything more important to you than God, anything that absorbs your heart and imagination more than God, anything you seek to give you what only God can give."If we're honest, it's easy to find idols in sports ministry. Things like number of participants, revenue, wins and losses, etc. can all be made into idols and become "ultimate things." I hope that for those of us in sports ministry that we can find our contentment and security in God. I pray that we can rejoice in the successes of our sports ministries and yet in the midst of that, still find our significance in God.

16 Must-Read Posts on Evangelism

In light of my previous post, I thought about entitling this '16 Posts You WON'T Read on Evangelism' but I thought that would be too pessimistic.

Anyway, evangelism is a recurring topic on the blog (after all, our ministry is called Church Sports Outreach) and as I looked back over the past year's posts, I found these 16 titles.  There's some good stuff here.  Enjoy!

One of the Best Posts I’ve Read on Evangelism

If we could place people on a range of one to ten depending on their interest in the gospel, where one is no interest and ten is a decision to follow Christ, lots of evangelism assumes people are at around eight. We teach our gospel outlines. We teach answers to apologetic questions. We hold guest services. We put on evangelistic courses. We preach in the open air or knock on doors. All these are great things to do, but about 70 percent of the population is at one or two.

Charles Spurgeon, Evangelism, & Your Ministry

Souls must be converted here, and if there be not many born to Christ, may the Lord grant to me that I may sleep in the tomb and be heard no more. Better indeed for us to die than to live, if souls be not saved.

The #1 Evangelistic Mistake We Make…

You heard me. We move too fast. We’re too aggressive. We’re too impatient. We’re not willing to simply walk with people through life for long enough, befriending them, serving them, and loving them for long enough until Christ becomes attractive to them through us.

If You Want to Reach People Then Stop Hurrying

Author John Ortberg has coined the phrase “hurry sickness.” As he says, “Love and hurry are fundamentally incompatible. Love always takes time, and time is the one thing hurried people don’t have.”

The Secret to Reaching People for Christ

Prayer is not magic.  It doesn’t guarantee results.  What it does guarantee though is that you will be changed for doing it.  If you habitually prayer for someone and their salvation, it will change you.  You will pursue this person more, you will love them more, and you will rejoice in every step of faith they take.  And God just may use it.

The Key to 21st Century Evangelism

In a progressively post-Christian society, the importance of hospitality as an evangelistic asset is growing rapidly. Increasingly, the most strategic turf on which to engage the unbelieving with the good news of Jesus may be the turf of our own homes.

Tips for Gospel Conversations from Tim Keller and Francis Schaeffer

Francis Schaeffer was asked what he’d do if he had an hour to share the gospel with someone. He responded by saying he’d listen for 55 minutes and then, in the last 5 minutes, have something meaningful to say. In other words, he listened in order to speak the gospel.

Reaching Out in Everyday Conversations

By asking questions, you are not only validating your listening and understanding, you are inviting more participation. You are encouraging them to engage their own thoughts, convictions, feelings, and presuppositions with questions which are not necessarily confrontational but sometimes subversively so.

Why We Have Not Reached the Lost

We only reach one person for Christ each year for every 85 church members in the United States. That is a frightening and terrible ratio.

Jesus’ Evangelism Strategy

“Out of 132 contacts that Jesus had with people recorded in the New Testament, 6 were in the temple, 4 were in the synagogue, and 122 were out in the mainstream of life.” (Adapted from Why Christians Sin, by J.K Johnson, Discovery House, 1992)

Tim Keller’s Top 10 Evangelism Tips

  1. Let people around you know you are a Christian (in a natural, unforced way)
  2. Ask friends about their faith – and just listen!
  3. Listen to your friends problems – maybe offer to pray for them

Selling Jesus to People

Think about it, there are many evangelistic trainings out there that look and sound very similar to this salesman’s approach.  They are pushy, arrogant, condescending, and can come off cold and overbearing.

How to Share Your Story

Well, I know a good place to start.  Start with you!  Start with how God has moved in your life.  If you don’t have much experience sharing your story, let me offer this framework: Creation, Fall, Redemption, Consummation.

7 Evangelism Lessons You Need to Teach Your Coaches and Volunteers

There is work to be done...Jesus has commanded you to do it...Jesus has commanded you to do it

How to Focus Your People in Your Sports Ministry on Evangelism

Why should it be any different with us? Missional fruitfulness comes from a heart gripped by God’s greatness and enthralled with His grace.

Becoming a Better Conversationalist

If you seek to be a good evangelist, then you need to be a good conversationalist.  I believe this is becoming a lost art in the midst of so much faceless communication (I’m beginning to sound like an old man!).

"It's JUST a Game!"

I've said it. You've probably said it. It's uttered every Saturday on fields and courts across the country. It's the ultimate retort to any sore loser or hyper-competitor. It goes like this:

"It's just a game!"

The fact is though, it's just not true.As a sports minister, I said this to angry coaches and players frequently. Never once did someone say, "You're right! I need to calm down." Instead, it provoked them to further anger.Beyond the fact that it provokes people, I would like to advocate eliminating this phrase from the vernacular of sports. Here's why:1. Condescension has no place for a minister. As we all know, many people struggle with the idolatry of sports. Remember, an idol is anything we've put in the place of God. This is no trivial thing. It does no good to speak condescendingly to a sports idolater by saying it's just a game. If you want to address the idolatry, due it carefully and cautiously with a humble heart. Trust me, both you and the idolater will grow as product of this posture.2. It creates a false dichotomy. Behind that saying is a belief that says, "Some things are important and some things are not. Games are not important." God tells us a different story though. In 1 Corinthians 31, it says, "So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God." Games are important because they can be done for the glory of God, just like anything else. Using this above statement lowers the bar for competition. People don't need a lower view of sports, they need a higher one!  (For more on this idea, take a look at The Ultimate Question or For the Love of the Game.)What do you say though? Have you used this statement? Has it been helpful?